Conflict Style Test —
free, 30 questions
What you actually do when it gets tense — and the repair move that fits you.
Classic Quiz
30 quick questions · 5 min
- ✓Fastest way to a result
- ✓Pick a card with one tap, 1–4 keys on desktop
🔁 Switch between them any time — your answers carry over·Same questions, same scoring, same free result
The science behind it
Built on the conflict-mode tradition (competing, accommodating, avoiding, compromising, collaborating) with items rewritten for close relationships rather than the workplace. Scores are percentiles, and we report your top two modes because almost nobody has just one. Read the full methodology →
What you get — free
- ✓Your dominant and backup conflict modes, with percentiles
- ✓What your pattern costs you, stated plainly
- ✓The repair move that works for your combination
- ✓A shareable result card
A sample from Attachment Style — the layout is the same for every test.
Nothing in a result is for sale. Create a free profile and the full report opens — every insight, saved for good. That is in our promise.
Common questions
Is one conflict style better than the others?
No. Each one works somewhere and fails somewhere. What predicts a good relationship is repair, not style — which is why the result focuses on your repair move.
Is it really free?
Yes. Your full scored result — percentiles, archetype, share card — is free, always, and every insight opens with a free profile. Nothing in a result is for sale.
Do I need an account?
No. Take the test and see your result instantly. An account only exists to save results across devices.
Quiz or talking with Luna — which should I pick?
Same questions, same scoring. The quiz is fastest; talking with Luna feels more natural and lets you add nuance. You can switch any time and your answers carry over. Talking is limited to once a day because it costs far more to run; the quiz never is.
What if the result does not sound like me?
Then say so — that is useful information, not a failure. Every self-report instrument measures how you answered today, and mood, context and how honestly you read the items all move it. Take it again in a few weeks, or open the result with Luna and tell her which part is wrong; she works from the same numbers and will not insist you are the archetype.
Who can see my results?
Nobody but you, unless you share them. Nothing is posted anywhere, results are not public, and a share card is only created when you ask for one. Luna sees your results only while the switch for that is on in Settings, and you can turn it off mid-conversation.
How often should I retake it?
Not weekly. These constructs are meant to be fairly stable, so a re-test after a few months — or after something genuinely changed, a new job, the end of a relationship, a course of therapy — tells you something. Re-taking after a bad afternoon mostly measures the afternoon.
Pairs well with
Each one you add makes Luna's advice sharper.