Attachment Style Test โ
free, 12 questions
Secure, anxious, avoidant, or a mix? Find the pattern behind how you bond โ and what to do with it.
Classic Quiz
12 quick questions ยท 2 min
- โFastest way to a result
- โAnswer with one tap, 1โ5 keys on desktop
Talk with the AI Coach
Same test, as a conversation
- โฆNo forms โ answer in your own words
- โฆScored exactly like the quiz
๐ Switch between them any time โ your answers carry overยทSame questions, same scoring, same free result
The science behind it
Attachment theory is one of the most-studied frameworks in relationship psychology, going back to Bowlby and Ainsworth and measured today with the Experiences in Close Relationships (ECR) scales. Our items are adapted from that tradition: two dimensions โ attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance โ scored as percentiles against population norms. Read the full methodology โ
What you get โ free
- โYour attachment style with percentile scores for anxiety & avoidance
- โYour archetype (The Anchor, The Tide, The Lighthouse, The Harbor Storm)
- โHow your style shows up in conflict, closeness, and repair
- โA shareable result card
- โLuna's take โ ask her anything about your result, free
A sample from Attachment Style โ the layout is the same for every test.
Optional: a deep report ($3.99, yours forever) adds stress patterns, a growth plan, and PDF export. Your core result is free either way โ that is in our promise.
Common questions
How accurate is this test?
Items are adapted from the Experiences in Close Relationships (ECR) research tradition, the standard for measuring adult attachment. Scores are percentiles against real norms โ see our methodology page for how scoring works.
Is it really free?
Yes. Your full scored result โ percentiles, archetype, share card โ is free, always. A deeper report (stress patterns, growth plan, PDF) is an optional $3.99 unlock.
Do I need an account?
No. Take the test and see your result instantly. An account only exists to save results across devices.
Quiz or talking with Luna โ which should I pick?
Same questions, same scoring. The quiz is fastest; talking with Luna feels more natural and lets you add nuance. You can switch any time and your answers carry over. Talking is limited to once a day because it costs far more to run; the quiz never is.
What if the result does not sound like me?
Then say so โ that is useful information, not a failure. Every self-report instrument measures how you answered today, and mood, context and how honestly you read the items all move it. Take it again in a few weeks, or open the result with Luna and tell her which part is wrong; she works from the same numbers and will not insist you are the archetype.
Who can see my results?
Nobody but you, unless you share them. Nothing is posted anywhere, results are not public, and a share card is only created when you ask for one. Luna sees your results only while the switch for that is on in Settings, and you can turn it off mid-conversation.
How often should I retake it?
Not weekly. These constructs are meant to be fairly stable, so a re-test after a few months โ or after something genuinely changed, a new job, the end of a relationship, a course of therapy โ tells you something. Re-taking after a bad afternoon mostly measures the afternoon.
Can my attachment style change?
Yes โ attachment is a pattern, not a life sentence. Many people shift toward security with awareness and practice. Retesting every few months shows your movement.
Pairs well with
Each one you add makes Luna's advice sharper.