Framework

The 4 Relationship Style types

How you actually show up with someone, day to day — closeness, how you hear things, and what you reach for when they are hurting.

Take the Relationship Style test85 questions · 12 min · free

How the result is decided

Two facets are measured independently, and where you land on both decides which of the four corners you are in.

Closeness · together ↔ apartSignals · plain ↔ impliedResponse · fix ↔ feelCertainty · planned ↔ open

All 4 types

💞The EngineYou show love by handling things. The person you love sometimes just wanted you to sit down.💞The HearthYou are so good at reading the room that nobody thinks to ask what you need.💞The WellYou do not reach often, and when you do it goes all the way down. The quiet in between gets misread.💞The WorkshopThings get fixed, remembered, taken care of. To someone waiting for words, it reads as distance.

Is this you?

The Relationship Style test is 85 questions and takes about 12 minutes. Your result carries your own numbers, not just the name.

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